Engineer. Artist.
Builder of beauty.

I'm Andrew Conru, a Stanford-trained engineer who built the first online dating site, found healing through painting, and now spends most of my time supporting Seattle's creative ecosystem through the Conru Art Foundation.

Andrew Conru
"Art does what argument can't. It bypasses our defenses and reminds us what we share."
Andrew Conru

Building Seattle's creative future

Through the Conru Art Foundation, I invest in the people, places, and programs that make Seattle a world-class city for art. Every dollar goes toward making art accessible as a path to healing, connection, and human flourishing.

100+
Seattle arts organizations funded
16K
sq ft cultural center at Union & 1st
$75K
annual stipend per Seattle Prize fellow
0%
commission: artists keep everything

From a farm in Indiana to Seattle's art scene

I grew up on a small farm in northern Indiana, where I learned to fix things, solve problems, and serve my community. Those values carried me to Stanford, where I earned a Ph.D. in Mechanical Engineering just as the World Wide Web was being born.

In 1994, I created the world's first online dating site. Two years later, I founded Friend Finder Networks, which grew to serve over 700 million registered users. I've launched about a dozen companies over the years, each guided by the same principle: build things that help people connect. The foundation is my latest project, and in some ways the most personal.

After years of building at full speed, I hit a wall. Burnout and depression nearly broke me. What pulled me back was something I never expected: painting. I challenged myself to create a work of art every day for a year. 365 paintings later, I was a different person.

These days I spend most of my time on art, education, and the creative community here in Seattle.

Programs & initiatives

The foundation supports artists at every stage, from free classical training to fully-funded fellowships to exhibition space with zero commission.

Seattle Prize

Seattle Prize

An elite artist fellowship providing painters with $75K stipends, dedicated studio space, and a full year of uninterrupted creative freedom. Growing to 20 fellows for the 2027 class. No grants to write. No side hustles. Just paint.

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Conru Art Foundation

Occidental Fine Arts

A 15,000 sq ft building in Pioneer Square housing artist studios, gallery space, and classical training in representational realism. World-class instruction in the techniques of the Old Masters, open to anyone with the drive to learn.

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ArtLove Salon

ArtLove Salon

A 16,000 sq ft cultural center across from the Seattle Art Museum with ~300 curated works, community events, and a zero-commission policy. Artists keep 100% of every sale. We host 20+ free events a year for nonprofits.

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Andrew Conru in his painting studio

I still paint every week

I'm not just funding art. I make it. Oil painting is how I process the world. I've completed over 400 paintings since I started, mostly portraits and figures. Some of them are terrible. That's the point.

I believe beauty is a human need, not a luxury. It creates the awe and wonder that remind us we're alive. Art does what argument can't. It bypasses our tribal defenses and speaks directly to what we share.

When I'm not painting or working on the foundation, you'll find me hunting for antiques on road trips, studying history, or watching YouTube at absurdly high speeds. I wrote over a million lines of code in my career (about 60 books worth), but now I mostly let AI do that part while I focus on the things only humans can do.

Reading with the cat
Hiking with Nonie
Riding a jeepney in the Philippines
Sunset at the lake

In my own words

A conversation about where I come from, what drives me, and why I believe beauty can change the world.

Beauty, Truth, Love

If I had to sum up what I care about, it would be these three things. Beauty reminds us we're alive. Truth makes real connection possible. And love is what holds it all together.

I'm an engineer who paints, a builder who believes in people, and someone who thinks the best way to contribute is to make things a little more beautiful, a little more honest, and a little more connected.

I'd rather spend what I have on things that matter now than hold onto it. There's too much good work to do.

Quick Facts

  • Education Ph.D., Mechanical Engineering, Stanford University
  • Founded First online dating site (1994); Friend Finder Networks (700M+ users)
  • Foundation Conru Art Foundation, serving Seattle since 2022
  • Venues ArtLove Salon (16K sq ft) + Occidental Fine Arts (15K sq ft), both in Seattle
  • Giving 100+ arts orgs funded; $500K+ annually; growing every year
  • Personally Oil painter (400+ works), history nerd, antique road-tripper, coder (1M+ lines), YouTube at 3x speed
  • From A small farm in northern Indiana